When you are looking to meet BBW singles online then you’ll definitely want to get as much as possible out of your choices of BBW dating site. The first conundrum you will encounter is choosing the right service. You have the advantage of choosing of more than one BBW online dating service so you should use it.
Writing this piece was really difficult; because in reality, what people like is far more subjective than what they don’t like. How do you reconcile all the different preferences in order to offer BBW singles advice on what to do to get better results/experience on online dating sites?
It is a daunting task for real, but all I can do is just a framework and offer a little advice based on my own experiences and hope that it helps.
So having said that, this is my list of “to do’s” for BBW singles who are trying to find a long-term partner using an online dating site:
Mostly use your current photos in your profile
This is one of the most common complaints from men; that women usually misrepresent themselves with their photos by using old photos or by cropping the photos in too tightly that most times you fail to realize that they are of a certain body type. Obviously men do this too; but you hear this complaint more frequently from them.
At first you would think this is a shallow advice, but when you really think about it, it all comes down to honesty. When you go on a date with someone you’ve been texting or calling for a while and find out the person looks exactly the opposite of what he/she had posted on their profile you suddenly might feel deceived and this might be a tie-breaker. One of the guys I met via online dating site thanked me for looking exactly like my profile photos because the last lady he went on a date with ended up gaining a lot of weight since the photos she posted on her profile were taken. He said, it wasn’t that he minded her overweight; he was just upset by the fact that she lied to him.
Posting inaccurate photos of yourselves is not a good way to get dates because people judge so heavily by appearance (it’s kind of shallow but it’s the truth). Sure you might get more dates by this means, but are those dates going to result into the relationship you are looking for?
Check to see how many BBW singles are in your area
When you join more than one BBW dating site, it’ll give you the opportunity to see which service has the most compatible BBW singles who lives in your locale. Expanding your search criteria when looking for compatible singles will also help find a lot more BBW singles faster, being fussy with your search criteria will only give you a few results to choose from. Also when you’re a little bit more open minded, you’ll have many more BBW singles to choose from.
You have to be yourself
Filling out those forms when creating your profiles can be a bit tough. The million-dollar question is: “How do I accurately describe myself without coming off as arrogant or boring”? There’s no straightforward way to go about this; my advice is do not try to be someone you think in your mind others wants you to be. It’s the same thing as posting an inaccurate photo of yourself; because sooner or later people are going to discover the real you, and this might mean you throwing your chances of a long-term relationship out the window so it’s advisable to be yourself and attract those who like the real you.
Patient is really a virtue
You must realize that people have different daily commitments in their lives, and most times online dating isn’t always at the top priority. Thus sometimes you’ll promptly receive responses, then again most other times you probably won’t even get a response. You shouldn’t let that faze you though because that’s not a personal reflection on you. BBW single women most times receive messages that are sexually crude or just mean and distasteful. It’s not fair to you, but that’s the reality you’re facing as a BBW single woman.
Bottom line: You are bound to become discouraged every now and then but don’t let it get you down for too long. Whether offline or online, dating is flat out hard for BBW singles, but you have to remember that you’re a worthy mate for someone out there. All you need is to have the patience to find that someone.
This is very important, above everything else, as a BBW single when you join your BBW dating services you must make sure you have fun. This will provide you with a much better experience, and probably even a more successful experience. If you’re having fun you’ll definitely make more friends, and increase your chances of finding a lover.